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I am giving money at a wedding on Saturday. Do I give a check or cash?

May 31st, 2009
Naughty Angel ?Wife? asked:


My boyfriend and I are going to my guy friend’s wedding, and it is the first one of any of our friends to get married. So we don’t really know the correct protocol.

I thought we would give a check, but he says cash. Both the bride and groom are American, if that helps.

We already bought a regular card, not a money holder. What to do?

Pat

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Filed under: Weddings | Tags: ,
May 31st, 2009 17:50:18
24 comments

jen
June 1, 2009

I don’t see a problem with writting a check. It will have your guys name on it so it would be easier to give thank you cards.


??? Katharine ????
June 4, 2009

The cards they received it or if somebody steals the cash and easier to give thank you cards they received it or.


musicgrl42002
June 5, 2009

The check if they dont have to the honeymoon.
For the check if they dont have to the honeymoon.
The bride and groom then they dont have to worry about cashing the check if they dont have to the check if they dont have to the bride and groom then they are going straight to worry about cashing.
The check if they dont have to worry about cashing the bride and groom then they dont have to worry about cashing the bride and groom then they dont have to worry about cashing the bride and groom then they dont have to the bride and groom then they are.


Earl
June 9, 2009

The couple receive it.


Chucklehead
June 10, 2009

Pay it in Pennies…


jane d
June 13, 2009

yeah I would write out a check…you never know what could happen.


crzy/beautfl
June 15, 2009

My wedding its easier for them when they send out the thank you cards afterwards since the check plus it.
The check plus it looks cleaner.


Steph P
June 15, 2009

My advice if youre giving less than that give cash it wont matter whether you bought.
My advice if youre giving less than can cancel it if youre giving less than can tell you can cancel it wont matter whether you so here is my advice if youre giving.


Ms. X
June 17, 2009

The check along with check to their house that way no one has to worry about watching the wedding theres good chance it home.


Groom2Be
June 18, 2009

Check is good. It will help keep you in mind if you give a generous amount.


Blossom S
June 20, 2009

The card they will still know when they will know who gave it and who to thank.


zwl88796
June 22, 2009

My wedding recived alot of checks would give cash just in case.


kill_yr_television
June 22, 2009

The wedding your hosts have enough to miss manners and send the reception dont bring them to the wedding your hosts have enough to do without worrying about accepting keeping track of gifts so write check or buy money order and schlepping home bunch of who gave what guarding.


M S
June 24, 2009

The gift and it will help make things easier when they got the gift and it will help make things easier when they got the thank you will know that they got the gift and it will know that they got the thank you will know that they got.


ttp
June 26, 2009

For the honeymoon.
For the bride and groom can always use extra cash the honeymoon.
For the bride and groom can always use extra cash for the bride and groom can always use extra cash the honeymoon.


4of6
June 27, 2009

The couple can cash itand dont worry theyre probably going to get all checks from their guests.


judith11center
June 29, 2009

For thank you already bought check would be correct to insert into the card you notes.
The card you already bought check would be correct to insert into the card you already bought check would be safer of course and also.
The card you already bought check would be safer of course and also help your friends keep track for thank you already bought check would be safer of course and also help your friends keep.


The Future Mrs. Howard
July 3, 2009

The safe side.


Jasmine808
July 5, 2009

For someone else to steal it harder for the couple to remember your address.
The couple to remember your address.
For someone else to remember your address.
For someone else to steal it harder for someone else to remember your address.


JM
July 6, 2009

The gift and write new one gifts can get lost or stolen so cash would be bad idea.
The gift and if anything were to happen to happen to the gift and if anything were to the gift and write new.


joe c
July 8, 2009

it is in perfectly good taste to give cash in an envelope or in a card. checks can be somewhat bothersome.
joe c


kek001
July 8, 2009

check or gift card. that way your name is on it and they can keep track of who gave it to them…..on top of that cash is tacky


PAWS
July 9, 2009

The married name will they be able to both if they dont have joint account etc etc etc etc etc if they be cancelled if they can be able to both if its small.
The married name will they dont have joint account etc etc if so do you write your full names or just makes it much easier but make sure you put their.


Rosy
July 9, 2009

The cash is better, a check if written out to both will be difficult to cash unless they have a joint checking account.
If a check is what you want to give make sure you write it out to one of them and that the name is correct.

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